From Hothead to Harvard Business Review: An EQ Journey By Desiree Grace Ever screw up in a tense situation with a colleague and kick yourself afterward? I just did that. I was irked that something got missed and was harsher with my colleague than I should have been. (J, you know who you are.) That got me thinking, it's time for a refresh on EQ, emotional intelligence, as much for my benefit as for yours. Like a lot of skills, it's use it or lose it. So, without further ado... 1. Great Leaders Have It By "great," I mean dynamic, charismatic, popular, people who build businesses and get things done. Mark Zuckerberg (Meta), Richard Branson (Virgin), Indra Nooyi (Pepsi) all have it. The ability to read a room, connect with people, and adapt to the audience— that's EQ . It's not the same as IQ, which we're all familiar with. Researchers have found that exceptional leaders have high EQ compared to average leaders and get better results. For exampl...

From Catamarans to Conference Rooms: What Guides  Can Teach Us By Desiree Grace Ever notice how travel expands your mind and your life? Drink strong Greek coffee, and suddenly your coffee routine at home changes. Eat real Mexican food and never spend a penny at Taco Bell ever again. Appreciate how the Europeans take vacation seriously and rethink your out-of-office time. I spent a few days on vacation and had the opportunity to observe some real professionals at work. Tour Guides are masters of managing crowds and people. While this might be the tourist trade, a lot of the lessons and skills are transferable to any trade, especially Sales and Management. As a gesture of goodwill and international cooperation, I share with you the following 6 lessons learned from Tour Guides.   1.      How you start matters a.      “Hello, Beautiful People! Welcome to our catamaran!”  Wow, what a way to start. You cannot get much more positive ...

Tour Guide Tactics for Everyday Leadership By Desiree Grace, with a little help from some friends   I spent a few days this month in a foreign country and had the opportunity to observe some real professionals at work. While their job title was “tour guide,” the lessons they shared go far beyond the travel industry. The skills that make a guide successful are remarkably transferable.  In the spirit of goodwill and international cooperation, I’m sharing a Baker’s Dozen worth of wisdom gleaned from tour guides.   1. How you start matters “Hello, Beautiful People! Welcome to our catamaran!” Talk about a first impression. High energy and warmth set the tone for a positive, engaging experience. Approach your projects the same way, begin with intention and enthusiasm.   2. Shake off a miserable client Your first group of the day might be demanding sourpusses. Do you let them ruin the entire day? Absolutely not. Shake it off, reset, and start fresh with the ...